Sunday, August 25, 2013

Mowing the lawn

My favorite chore by far is mowing the lawn! We have a riding mower and a very large yard and I love mowing!

It surely isn't as much work as pushing a mower would be, but I am certain it burns a few calories.

I think I like it so much for a few reasons. I get to work outside, I can see the work I accomplished, it stays mowed for a few days at least, and it looks nice when I am all done. I don't get the same thing from say, doing the dishes. With the dishes, as soon as I think I'm done, I find more. They don't stay done for more than a few minutes, or if I am lucky, a few hours, and although I have a small window by the sink, I cannot see anything outside.

I probably won't have many more opportunities to mow this year. Mowing season around here is usually April to September. Maybe once in March, maybe once in October. I think last year I mowed once in September and that was it for the year. I think it has rained a lot more this year though, so perhaps I'll get to mow a bit longer this year, we'll see.

Sometimes I cut patterns in the grass before I mow it all down. I like doing things like that. I don't always mow the same patterns, sometimes I'll mow certain patches, and other times I'll just mow near the house. I like mowing the grass really short so that when I walk barefoot in the yard the grass doesn't make my ankles itch, I hate that!

Michael and Gideon are both big enough to mow now, but I won't let them. Just because its my favorite job! They can do some of the other chores that I don't like as much. LOL, hey, I'm the momma, I can do that, right? I do let them mow sometimes, just not most of the time.


Friday, August 16, 2013

How do homeschoolers measure up?

In case you were curious...

Homeschooled: How American Homeschoolers Measure Up
Source: TopMastersInEducation.com

Proud moments

For those of you with children, do you ever have those amazing moments where your child does something that makes you so proud of them? I love those moments when they just totally bless you, when you are so blessed to be their parent.

As I have said, the last two years have been very challenging for our homeschooling. We have school when and where we can. Some weeks we'd only get a day or two of school accomplished, other weeks it would be every day, but usually it was 3 or 4 days a week. Since getting back from California last month we have really tried to buckle down and get a regular school routine going. We have 5 days left to meet our requirement for school days this year (2012/13).

Well, yesterday morning I slept a little late, but when I got up I was so very pleased with what I discovered! The boys were already doing their math lessons!! I was so very pleased that they took the initiative and started their school work on their own even though I had overslept and hadn't given them instructions yet.

Sometimes you wonder as a parent if you are raising your children right. If you are doing everything you can to make sure that they grow into good, godly, responsible adults. Sometimes their behavior makes you wonder what you have done wrong! Then sometimes, like yesterday morning, you know you must have done something right.

It is an incredible responsibility to be a parent. Something that no one should ever take lightly. It may even be the biggest responsibility a person will ever have! The job of raising a child, teaching a child, molding a child, helping a child learn their place in the world, can only be done well by the grace of God, and with His help.

I have been so blessed to be able to be a mother. To have 4 wonderful boys, 3 of whom I still have to raise. Lord, help me do this well!

Tuesday, August 13, 2013

Arts and Crafts

I have always liked arts and crafts, but since my children have been born there hasn't been much time for that sort of thing. Now that they are getting older, I find they are better at entertaining themselves, leaving me more time for arts and crafts!

Of course, most of the time there are many other things I could be doing, but taking some down time to work on arts and crafts seems very therapeutic for me. I made probably 200 bead bracelets a couple of weeks ago. Some with turtles in memory of Silas, and some with butterflies for a little girl in town fighting cancer.

Now I am learning how to make bows. Someone pointed out, that had I had girls, I would already know how to make bows. With September coming up (childhood cancer awareness month), I want to know how to make different types of bows (in gold of course, the color for childhood cancer awareness). Tonight I made 3, two were successful, one was not.

I packed away Silas' clothes the week of his funeral. I know that sounds soon but I wanted to do it while my mom and sister were here. We packed one bag full of things that I wanted to save (couldn't part with), and one bag that I would save to pass to my nephews when they get big enough (they were all just born this year!). Anyway, now I am using his dresser for an art supply cabinet. I will mostly keep my things in it, the boys have their own art supplies in the "school room".

As a side note, Jason asked me recently, "why do we call it the 'school room'? We do school everywhere except in there!". I told him, it was the school room because we kept school books and supplies in there. He wasn't totally satisfied with that answer, he wanted to come up with another name for the room.

Maybe I should post some photos of my attempts at arts and crafts here. Not tonight, I am too tired. One of these days I should though.

Monday, August 12, 2013

A productive day

Today was Archie's first day back to work since Silas passed away, actually, since January! He took off for Silas' Make-a-wish trip and for his surgery in February and was going to go back in March. When we learned in March that Silas was terminal, Archie decided he'd better stay home and spend as much time with Silas as he could. I am so glad he did and so thankful that his employer allowed him to still have a job when he was ready to go back!

I have been looking forward to this day as well as dreading it. Looking forward to getting back into a "normal" routine, but dreading missing Archie and being overwhelmed by trying to get back into a "normal" routine that didn't include Silas.

It has been OK so far. I feel it has been a productive day. I've almost got the kitchen cleaned. The dishes are done, the sink is clean, the counters are clean. I just need to sweep the floor, check the fridge for things that need to be tossed, and wipe off the stove.

We had a really good school day today too. The boys whined a little about it, particularly the math, but we got a lot done. Math, Reading, Handwriting, Spelling, P.E. Tomorrow I'd like to do some Science and History as well. Michael really needs more work math, Gideon and Jason really need more work on reading. We will technically be finished with the school year next Thursday since we school year round. I plan to give them 3 weeks off and then we will start back up again. I have most of the curriculum I want to use already but I plan to get some more math curriculum for Michael.

I also wrote a grocery list today. I only need a few things so I will probably run to town after dinner tonight.

The big task that Archie and I need to complete tonight is getting the dining table cleaned off. It is piled high with papers and miscellaneous items that need to have homes. Hopefully it won't take too long to get everything in order.

Tomorrow Jason starts Gymnastics. I am really looking forward to this! I think he will do well if he can listen to instructions. He is very spatially aware and seems to have some physical talent for things like that. I am interested to see how he does.

AWANA will start on Wednesday. I have not found Gideon and Jason's books yet. It has been a year and a half since they attended AWANA. It was just too difficult to take them while Silas was ill. Hopefully I can find their books by Wednesday, if not, I may go ahead and order new books for them.

Overall, I think today has gone pretty well. It still feels strange for Silas to not be here. Perhaps it will always feel strange. I know he is OK now though, and I know that we will be OK too. It is just going to take some time.

Thursday, August 8, 2013

No sugar

I started cutting sugar out of my diet about 6 weeks ago. I have "cheated" from time to time, particularly when I was away from home. However, I am still eating far less sugar than I did before!

Sugar has always been an addiction of mine I think. I love sugar. Way too much! But its got to go. Its not good for me and it doesn't love me back.

When I say "sugar" I am referring to added sugar, refined sugar, processed sugar. I am not avoiding all carbs, though by avoiding added sugar, that cuts out a lot of carb consumption. I read the labels, I have learned the "other" names for sugar, and I avoid eating anything that has it. I do eat fruits and veggies that have natural sugar in them, I do eat some honey as well. I am also avoiding "fake" sugars as well. I don't mind the natural sweeteners like Stevia (my favorite).

I have struggled with my weight all of my adult life. I have pretty much always been about 20-30 lbs over weight, but when Silas got sick and we were eating out or having meals brought to us all of the time, well, that 30 lbs over weight turned into 80 lbs over weight. I think that continuing to cut sugar out of my diet will be an important part of moving towards my goal of being a healthy weight.

Of course there are other things that I need to do to reach a healthy weight. Drink plenty of water, exercise moderation in what I eat (even if its a healthy food, you can still eat too much of it), make sure that the foods I eat are healthy and not just empty calories, and of course, get plenty of exercise!

Exercise has been hard lately, I don't do well with heat! I suppose that is an excuse. The evenings have been quite nice lately though, I told Archie yesterday we should walk every evening at about 8 PM. It has cooled off some by then and is quite pleasant. In the past, I have always lost the most weight in the Spring and Fall.


Wednesday, August 7, 2013

Getting organized

We are still trying to get the house "organized". It will take a while. It has not been a priority for a long time but now we really want it to be organized in such a way as to make "living" easier. I don't want to have to dig through piles of books to find an AWANA hand book. I don't want to lose math books or pencils. I want everything to have a place and for everything to be in its place!

I have never been a super organized person. However, I am one of those people who can have a desk piled with papers and know exactly where everything is. To others my desk would look like chaos, but to me, its organized, sort of. My biggest problem is when people move things. Because it looks like a mess, they think its OK to shuffle things around, but then I don't know where things are! LOL.

At any rate, we need to get more organized. We have been organized periodically, but not lately. In the 14 years Archie and I have been married we have gone through stages of being very organized, and being completely unorganized. When Michael was little the whole apartment was clean and organized, except one room. When we had 3 kids and one on the way the apartment was utterly chaotic! It was so bad I panicked every time there was a knock at the door. Then when we had 4 kids and lived in a house it was more organized, but one room was usually a mess. Since we have lived in Georgia it has been a constant struggle to find a sense of organization.

Living here, in my mother-in-law's mobile home, it has been a challenge to organize her things and our things in such a way as to live peacefully and comfortably together. When Silas got sick, organization was not on my list. I just wanted things to be clean, to keep him from getting any kind of infection. Clutter accumulated with all of the cards, letters, and gifts he received during his treatment, (not to mention all of the medications and medical supplies!) and well, it was quite overwhelming! (It was wonderful to have the support and I don't want to complain! I am glad so many people made such an effort to make his life better). Now though, its time to get the house functional again. To figure out where everything is and where it needs to belong.

I am not expecting to be organized overnight, it will be a long process. Still though, we are pressing forward!